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WHAT the Diary of Samuel
Pepys is to seventeenth century England the Diary of Samuel
Sewall is to the
Boston of the Puritan era. This invaluable contribution to New England
literature covers more than fifty-five years of old Boston life and
covers it,
too, at a time when that life was putting itself into form. It is
therefore a
rich mine of history, a veritable storehouse of old ways and social
customs.
The man who wrote it was a part of all that he met and he was, besides,
a
red-blooded healthy-minded human being in an age — which too
many people think
wholly given over to disagreeable asceticism. We cannot do better,
then, thin
follow for a chapter Sewall's varied career as he himself traces it for
us in
the vivid pages of his mental and spiritual day-book.
At the outset we must do the
old judge the justice to believe that, — to him, —
New England was a colony
with a mission. In a speech made in 1723 after Lieutenant-Governor
Dummer had
taken the oath of office he said: "The people you have to do with are a
part of the Israel of God and you may expect to have of the prudence
and
patience of Moses communicated to you for your conduct. It is
evident that our
Almighty Saviour counselled the first planters to remove hither and
settle
here; and they dutifully followed his advice; and therefore he
will never
leave nor forsake them nor theirs." All his life long Sewall strove to
help the Lord do the work he felt to be marked out for the Puritans. We
must
bear this in mind when the judge of the witches seems narrow to us. But
he does
not often so seem for he was a generous-minded man, temperamentally and
physically easy-going in spite of his Puritan training. The
Reverend N. H.
Chamberlain, who has written most entertainingly of "Sewall
and the World
He Lived In" attributes the endearing qualities of his hero to the fact
that he was much more Saxon than Dane, and came from the English South
Land
where the sun is warmer than in the North, the gardens and
orchards fuller.
Moreover, none of the
Sewalls had suffered from persecution. Samuel's
great-grandfather, beyond whom
the family cannot be traced, made a fortune as a linen-draper at
Coventry and
was several times elected mayor. His life was then an eminently
successful one.
The mayor's eldest son, however, was a Puritan of such strong
convictions that
he sent Sewall's father, Henry, to New England. But the climate of
Newbury,
where Henry Sewall took up land, did not agree with the family and they
returned to the mother Country. Thus it happened that Samuel Sewall was
born in
Bishopstoke, Hampshire, England, in 1647 and spent the impressionable
years of
his young life in a background where orchards flourished mightily,
where
cock-fighting was a favourite sport and where roast beef and attendant
good
things exercised a potent formative influence.
When the boy Samuel was nine
the family returned to America. His account of their landing at Boston
is given
thus naively: "We were about eight weeks at sea where we had nothing to
see but water and sky; so that I began to fear that I should never get
to shore
again; only I thought the captains and the mariners would not have
ventured
themselves, if they had not hopes of getting to land again. On the
Lord's Day
my mother kept aboard; but I went ashore; the boat grounded and I was
carried
out in arms, July 6, 1661."
The future Diarist was
educated a father's house in Newbury by a private tutor and at Harvard
College,
from which he was graduated in 1671. Three years later he took his
master's
degree, an occasion which he described thus in a letter
written to his son,
Joseph, when he (Sewall) was a grown mail: "In 1674 I took my second
degree and Mrs. Hannah Hull, my dear wife, your honoured mother was
invited by
Doctor Hoar and his lady (her kinsfolk) to be with them awhile at
Cambridge.
She saw me when I took my degree and set her affection on me,
though I knew
nothing of it until after our marriage which was February 28, 1675-76.
Governor
Bradstreet married us." Sewall's thesis on this interesting
commencement
day was a Latin discourse on original sin!
For of course the young man
was ministerially minded and, at this stage of his career, bade fair to
follow
the profession of most Harvard men of the day. Very likely, too, he
would have
kept on with his preaching but for the fact that, after a supplementary
year or
two at Cambridge, it was made easy for him to enter the business and
the family
of John Hull; the New England mint-master. Hull was now old and Sewall
seems to
have been entrusted, almost at once, with the correspondence
appertaining to
the merchant branch of his profession. Ere long the Diarist is
importing and
exporting on his own account.
First, though, came his
marriage with the bouncing Hannah Hull, a lady whose weight played a
more
important part in her charms, than has been the case with any other
heroine of
romance. Hawthorne is chiefly responsible for this, of course,
for he has
described in fascinating fashion the marriage of Sewall to this, his
first
wife. But if Sewall did get his wife's weight in pine-tree shillings
when he
got her he had not stipulated for this or any other dowry. "The
mint-master was especially pleased with his new son-in-law
because he had
courted Miss Betsy out of pure love," we are told, "and had said
nothing at all about her portion." It is good for us to remember this
passage when we read the, story of Judge Sewall's later courtships.
About a year after his
marriage Sewall joined the Old South Church and having
fulfilled this
pre-requisite to citizenship, he was (in 1678) made a freeman. In 1681
he was
appointed master of the public printing-press, an office which he held
for some
three years printing public and religious documents, and especially the
Assembly's Catechism, five hundred copies of which he gave
away to the children
of his relations. Sewall had now gone to live at Cotton Hill, on
Tremont
street, almost opposite King's Chapel burying ground, on property which
once
belonged to Sir Harry Vane. In the colony records we find (1684):
— "In
answer of the petition of Sam' Sewall Esq, humbly showing that his
house of
wood in Boston, at the hill where the Revd John Cotton former dwelt,
which
house is considerably distant from other building and standeth
very bleak, he
humbly desiring the favour of this court to grant him liberty to build
a small
porch of wood, about seven foot square, to break off the wind from the
fore
door of said house, the court grants his request."
A pleasant glimpse of the
social life of the period is gained from an entry made in the Diary the
spring
following the building of this porch: "June 20, Carried my wife to
Dorchester to eat Cherries and Raspberries, chiefly to ride and take
the air;
the time my wife and Mrs. Flint spent in the orchard I spent in Mr.
Flint's
study reading Calvin on the Psalms." The following January he tells us
that the cold was so extreme that the "harbour is frozen up and to the
Castle, so cold that the sacramental bread is frozen pretty bad and
rattles
sadly as broken into the plates."
From November, 1688, to
November, 1689, Sewall was abroad combining with the business of
helping Increase
Mather make terms with the King's government the pleasure of
renewing family
friendships in the land of his birth. There was naturally a good deal
of sermon-hearing
mingled with these occupations and we find one excellent description of
the
fashion in which the Lord's supper was administered in England at the
church of
that Dr. Annesley of whom we have already heard as Dunton's
father-in-law.
"The Dr. went all over the meeting first, to see who was there, then
spake
something of the sermon, then read the words of institution, then
prayed and
eat and drunk himself, then gave to every one with his own hand,
dropping
pertinent expressions. In our pew said, 'Now our Spikenard should give
its
smell;' and said to me 'Remember the death of Christ.' The wine was in
quart
glass bottles. The deacon followed the Doctor and when his cup
was empty
filled it again; as at our pew all had drunk but I, he filled the cup
and then
gave it to me; said as he gave it must be ready in new obedience and
stick at
nothing for Christ."
To
Cambridge and to Oxford, the colleges where many of the Puritan
preachers had been educated, Sewall made pious pilgrimages with Mather
and
between whiles he ate and drank with his numerous relatives. At "Cousin
Jane Holt's" he had "good bacon, veal and parsnips, very good
shoulder of mutton and a fowl roasted, good currant suet pudding and
the
fairest dish of apples I have eat in England."
But he was very glad to get
back to Boston for that city was now his dear home and be was one of
its most
useful citizens. In 1683 he is a deputy to the General Court from
Westfield,
as his father-in-law, John Hull, had been before him — it
being then possible
for a man to be elected from a town other than that in which he lived
— and he
belonged to the Boston Fire Department and to the Police and
Watch. In
business he was prospering mightily and so was able May 23,
1693, to lay the
corner-stone of his new house, next Cotton Hill, "with stones gotten
out
of the Common." Two years later we find the house completed and
Governor
Bradstreet "drinking a glass or two of wine, eating some fruit and
taking
a pipe or two of tobacco" under its substantial roof. "Wished me joy
of the house and desired our prayers," comments the Diary. Picnics and
weddings
were favourite diversions with Sewall. The Diary records one
festivity of the
former class held Oct. 1, 1697, the refreshments for which consisted of
"first, honey, butter curds and cream. For dinner very good roast lamb,
turkey, fowls and apple pie. After dinner sung the 121 Psalm. A glass
of
spirits my wife sent stood upon a joint stool which Simon W. jogging it
fell
down and broke all to shivers. I said it was a lively emblem of our
fragility
and mortality."
The Deane Winthrop House, Winthrop
Not long after this our
Diarist attended the wedding of Atherton Haugh, his ward, and Mercy
Winthrop,
daughter of Deane Winthrop, at the latter's house which still stands in
the
town bearing his name. "Sang a Psalm together," writes Sewall
in
describing the occasion. "I set St. David's tune." None of the
many
duties which Sewall discharged was better done than that which
had to do with
settling his young people in life. On several occasions we find the
Diary
saying: "Prayed for good matches for my children as they grow up; that
they may be equally yoked." It was the Puritan habit to marry,
not once,
but several times, if death came to separate. Instances of old maids
were very
rare and those of old bachelors even more so. (Stoughton stands almost
alone
among Puritan worthies as a man who never tool: unto himself a wife.)
The
elders on the man's side seem to have had a custom of sending
a suitable
present to the lady's parent as a sign that Barkis was "willin'." If
the match was to be refused the present was very likely returned. This
custom
may be held to explain the following rather blind letter of Sewall's:
"BOSTON, Jan. 13, 1701.
"MADAM: — The
inclosed
piece of silver, by its bowing, humble form bespeaks your favour for a
certain
young man in town. The name (Real) the motto (plus ultra) seem to plead
its
suitableness for a present of this nature. Neither need you accept
against the
quantity; for you have the means in your own hands; and by your
generous
acceptance you may make both it and the giver great. Madam, I am
When the Puritans first came
to New England they ordered (1646), in a reaction against the
Church of
England, that only magistrates or one appointed by the authorities
should join
parties in holy wedlock. Under this law Governor Richard
Bellingham, the last
survivor of the patentees named in the charter, performed a marriage
service
for himself and his new bride: — "His last wife was ready to
be contracted
to a friend of his who lodged in his house and by his consent had
proceeded so
far with her when, on the sudden, the governor treated with her and
obtained
her for himself. He was fifty and the lady twenty and
Bellingham also solemnized the
marriage himself." By
Sewall's time, however, the ministers, as we have seen, were performing
the
marriage ceremony.
Governor
Bellingham's House, Chelsea
One rather curious courtship
custom which obtained at this time was that of addressing fervid
petitions to
a. near woman-relative of the girl a man wished for his wife, praying
that this
sister or mother would intercede with the "divine mistress." Drake in
his "Roxbury" gives such a letter sent by Paul Dudley, son of
the
royal governor, to Mrs. Davenport, sister of his "dearest Lucy":
"DEAR MADAM: — It
is
impossible but that you must take notice of that most affectionate
Respect and
Dutiful Passion I Bear to your most charming and amiable Sister, and
you as
easily guess at my Design in it which I Blush at the thought of. But
the just
honour and Regard I have and ought to have to Colonel
Wainwright, [the girl's
father] and his Lady in this affair, forbids my pursuing it any further
till I
have mentioned it to them; for Which Reason it is that I am now going
Hither
(though with a trembling and heavy heart) and carry with me a letter
from the
Governor to your Father that he would allow me to wait upon my Sweetest
fairest
Dearest Lucy. But unless my Dearest Davenport will assist and make An
Interest
for me I Can't Hope for Success. I Confess I have no grounds to ask or
expect
such a favour from you, unless it Be by reminding you of the many
obligations
you have already laid me Under, and this is an argument which goes a
great way
with Noble and Generous minds, and I am sure if you did but know what I
Undergoe Both Day and Night, you would Pity me at least. I must beg of
you
therefore if you have any regard to my Health and Happiness, I
might say to my
life, you would show your compassion and friendship to me in this
matter;* and
Hereby lay such an obligation upon me as shall not, cannot ever Be
forgotten.
I Beg a thousand pardons of
my Dame for this Freedom; and Pray her not to expose my folly to any
one, tho'
if she thinks it proper, or that it will Doe me any Service She may
Read (to
the mark * above) to my Divine Mistress; I know you have smiled all
along and
By this time are weary of my Scrawle. I'll have done therefore, and
when I have
asked the favour of you to present, as on my knees, my most
Sincere,
passionate, Dutifull and Constant Soul to My Charming Nymph, With whom
I hope
to find it upon my Return, of which I shall be most Impatient. Dear
Madam, I
once more beg pardon of you and pray you to think me in
Earnest in what I
write for every Word of it Comes from the Bottom of My Soul, and I hope
Before
I have done to Convince My Dearest Lucy of the truth of it tho' as yet
She
Believes nothing that I say to her. Madam, I am, with all
affection and
Respect, Your most obliged tho' now Distressful Humble Servant,
"PAUL DUDLEY."
"You may show all this
letter if you think fit, Mrs. Davenport."
He married Lucy in 1703 and
there are occasional references, in Sewall's Diary, to the
fortunes of the
couple.
This son of Governor Dudley
it was, by the bye, who entered Harvard at the tender age of eleven and
about
whom his , father thus wrote the president: "April 26, 1686. I have
humbly
to offer you a little sober well-disposed son, who, though very young,
if he
may have the favour of admittance I hope his learning may be tolerable;
and for
him I will promise that, by your and my care, his own Industry and the
blessing
of God, his mother, the university, shall not be ashamed to
allow him the
place of a son at seven years end. Appoint a time when he may be
examined."
Sewall's children all made
good matches (except Hannah, who was an invalid and never married), the
oldest
son winning as a wife the daughter of Governor Dudley. This alliance
made it
very difficult for Sewall to be as sympathetic as he must
otherwise have been
when the Mathers, with whom he was very intimate, solicited his support
in
their memorable controversy with that official.
After the weddings of the
poorer classes there had been wont to be dancing at a nearby ordinary
or
tavern, but the court early took this abuse vigorously in hand and
ordered
(May, 1651) that "whereas it is observed that there are many abuses and
disorders by dancing in ordinaries whether mixed or unmixed,
upon marriage of
some persons, this Court doth order that henceforward there shall be no
dancing
upon such occasion, or at any other times in ordinaries, upon the pain
of five
shilling for every person that shall so dance in ordinaries."
Sewall
especially hated dancing and writes it down with glee in his Diary when
one
Stepney, who had come over to teach this accomplishment, had to run
away
because of debt.
In his relations to Indians,
negroes and the witchcraft delusion Sewall showed himself
considerably in
advance of his time, however. Reference has already been made to his
brave
confession of error in the acceptance of "spectral evidence,"
so we
can here confine our attention to his attitude towards the two
other
persecuted peoples. After King Philip's War, which reached its crisis
in May,
1676, the cause of the Indians went down apace and it was ordered "that
a
guard be set against the entrance of the town of Boston (on
the Neck) and that
no Indian be suffered to enter upon any pretext, and without. a guard
and two
musketeers and not to lodge in town." Indians even approaching
by land or
water were liable to arrest. But a few men, and Sewall was among them,
still
persisted in their labours for these people. Cotton Mather sets down
the fact
that Judge Sewall built a meeting-house at his own charge for one of
the Indian
congregations and "gave those Indians cause to pray for him
because 'he
loveth our nation for he hath built us a synagogue.' " This
meeting-house
was in Sandwich, Barnstable County, Cape Cod. Already Sewall had
written as to
ways of dealing with the race: "The best thing we can do for our
Indians
is to Anglicize them in all agreeable instances; in that of language as
well as
others. They can scarce retain their language without a tincture of
other
savage inclinations.... I should think it requisite that convenient
tracts of
land should be set out to them; and that by plain and natural
boundaries as
much as may be; as lakes, rivers, mountains, rocks; upon which for any
man to
encroach should be accounted a crime. Except this be done, I fear their
own
jealousies and the French Friars will persuade them, that the
English as they
increase and think they want more room will never leave till they have
crowded
them quite out of all their lands. And it will be a vain attempt for us
to
offer Leaven to them, if they take up prejudices against us as if we
did grudge
them a living upon their own earth."
To the negro also Sewall was
a constant friend. He wrote a remarkable anti-slavery tract "On the
Selling of Joseph," and he ranks first among those who strove to give
the
black man a chance at decent and respectable married life. The Diary of
June
22, 1716, records "I essayed to prevent Indians and negroes being rated
with
horses and hogs but could not prevail." As a justice he gave some
highly
important decisions in cases where negroes had been wronged,
one of them
setting forth in truly stirring language that "the poorest boys and
girls
within this province, such as are of the lowest condition, whether they
be
English or Indians or Ethiopians, they have the same right to religion
and life
that the richest heirs have. And they who go about to deprive them of
this
right, they attempt the bombarding of Heaven; and the shells they throw
shall
fall down upon their own heads."
Sewall experienced, of
course, that very thrilling thing, the birth of a new century. The
Diary of
January 2, 1701, records that "just about break of day Jacob Amsden and
3
other trumpeters gave a blast with the trumpets on the Common near Mr.
Alford's. Then went to the Green Chamber and sounded there till about
sunrise.
Bell man said these verses a little before break-a day which I printed
and gave
them. The trumpeters cost me five pieces of 8." These verses were from
Sewall's
own pen; they were fittingly reread on Beacon Hill by the Reverend
Edward
Everett Hale at midnight on the eve of our present century's
dawn. The first
two are:
"Once
more! Our God
vouchsafe to shine: Tame thou the rigor of our clime. Make haste with thy impartial light And terminate this long dark night. "Let the transplanted English vine Spread further still; still call it thine; Prune it with skill: for yield it can More fruit to thee the husbandman." |
Nothing about the Diary is
more significant than some of its omissions. When "news is brought to
us" (September 17, 1714) of Queen Anne's death the only comment Sewall
makes upon the sad countenance of him who bore the tidings is, "I was
afraid Boston had burnt again." Anne was a High Churchwoman and had
given
aid and succour to the Church of England to which Sewall had refused to
sell
land for a parish home. Though Sewall was now sixty-two, he was on hand
bright
and early, we may be sure, for that dinner held at the Green Dragon
tavern to
proclaim George I king of England and "Supreme Lord of the
Massachusetts."
Green Dragon Tavern
Judge Sewall's wife Hannah
died October 19, 1717. He mourned her deeply, but briefly. It was
expected with
the rigour of a law in the Puritan land that widows and widowers should
remarry.
They all did it, and not to do it was a social offence. Apparently they
all
helped each other to do it, and for a man in Judge Sewall's social
station
there was no chance of escape, even though he was sixty-five. But he
appears to
have bent his neck cheerfully enough to the matrimonial yoke, for we
find the
Diary recording:
"Feby. 6, 1718. This
morning wandering in my mind whether to live a single or married life,
I had a
sweet and very affectionate meditation concerning the Lord
Jesus. Nothing was
to be objected against his person, parentage, relations,
estate, house, home.
why did I not presently close with him. And I cried mightily to God
that he
would help me so to do."
"Feby. 10. I received a
letter from Mr. Winthrop having one enclosed to his mother which I
carry to
her. She tells me Mr. Eyre [Mrs. Winthrop's first husband] married her
May 20,
1680. Lived together about twenty years."
"March 10. In Madame
Usher's absence Madam Henchman took occasion highly to commend
Madame
Winthrop, the Major-General's widow [as a wife] March 14. Deacon Marion
comes
to me, sits with me a great while in the evening; after a great deal of
discourse about his courtship he told me all the Olivers said they
wished I
would court their aunt (Madam Winthrop). I said 'twas not five months
since I
buried my dear wife. Said little, but said before Was hard to know
whether best
to marry again or no; whom to marry. Dr. Mather (Increase) sends me his
Marah
in a letter in which is this expression, 'But your honor will allow me
now at
length to offer you my opinion that all the regards are not yet paid
which you
owe unto the Widow, and which are expected from you.'"
This Marah was probably one
of the elder Mather's books, with the title, "An Essay to do Good unto
the
Widow," and the grave badinage here of the Puritan divine at
the expense
of the Puritan Judge is characteristic.
"March 19. Mr.
Leverett, when he and I are alone, told me his wife and he had laid out
Madam
Brown for me and yet took occasion to say that Madam Winthrop had done
very
generously by the Major General's family in giving up her dower. I said
if
Madam Brown should leave her fair accommodations at Salem, she might be
apt to
repent it."
But soon, either because
fate was unpropitious, or Sewall's discretion had the upper hand, he
turned for
comfort to the Widow Dennison, whose husband had died shortly
before —
"an autumnal matron," as Hawthorne would phrase it, but withal a
business woman not wasting property on sentiment. Judge Sewall had
written the
late Dennison's will and attended his funeral, for we read:
"March 19. I write Mr.
William Dennison's will, being desired by a messenger from Roxbury with
minutes."
On March 26, Sewall, with
other Puritan notables, attended Mr. Dennison's funeral at Roxbury,
where his
pastor, Mr. Walter, said: "He was a man of truth, and of trust, a man
of
prayer, integrity and piety."
"Gov. Dudley and I went
next the mourners," the Judge records. "Went back to the house
in a
coach. At coming away I prayed God to keep house with the widow."
Danforth
gives the widow Dennison a high commendation for her piety, prudence,
diligence,
humility."
"April 7. I prove Mr.
Dennison's will. Her brother, Edmund Wells, brought the widow to town
and gave
me notice before hand. I gave her 10s. to give her sister Weld for
her Indian Bible. Mr. Dorr took occasion in her absence to say she was
one of
the most dutiful wives in the world. Her cousin, the widow Hayden,
accidentally
came in with her. April 8. Mr. Boydell, when I was at his office and
signed the
papers, smiling said Mr. Dennison's will looked as if it was written by
me. I
told him, 'Yes, but there was not a tittle of it mine, but the form.' "
"June 3d. Go to
Roxbury, talk with Mr. Walter about Mrs. Dennison. He advises me not to
see her
then, lest should surprise her undressed [not dressed for callers].
Told him I
came on purpose; yet finally submitted to his advice; he spake of her
coming to
town on Thursday. June 5. Nobody came —
I writ to Mr. Walter. June 9. Note, Mrs. D. came in the morning, about
nine
o'clock, I took her up into my chamber and discoursed thoroughly with
her. She
desired me to procure another and better nurse. [Sewall had represented
that he
needed some one to look after him in his old age.]
"I gave her the last
two News Letters, — told her I intended to visit her at her
own house next
lecture day. She said 'twould be talked of. I answered in such cases
persons
must run the gauntlet. Gave her Mr. Whiting's oration, for
Abijah Walter who
brought her on horseback to town. I think little or no notice was taken
of
it."
"June 17. Went to
Roxbury Lecture. Visited Govr. Dudley, Mrs. Dennison; gave her
Dr. Mather's
sermons very well bound; told her we were in it invited to
a wedding. She
gave me very good curds. July 2. I gave
Mrs. Dennison her oath to the inventory [of her husband's
goods.] At night
when all were gone to bed, Cousin Moody went with me into the new hall,
read
the history of Rebecca's Courtship and prayed with me respecting my
widowed
condition. July 16. Went and visited Mrs. Dennison. Gave her King
George's
effiges in copper; and an English crown of King Charles II., 1677. Eat
curds
with her; I craved a blessing and returned thanks; came home
after it."
"July 25. I go in a
hackney coach to Roxbury. Call at Mr. Walter's who is not at
home; nor Gov.
Dudley nor his lady. Visit Mrs. Dennison; she invites me to eat. I give
her two
cases with a knife and fork in each; one, turtle shell tackling; the
other long
with ivory handles, squared, cost 4s. 6d.; pound of raisins
with proportional
almonds. Visit her brother and sister Weld."
"Aug. 6. Visited Airs.
Dennison, carried her sister Weld, the widow and Mrs. Weld to her
brother,
where we were courteously entertained. Brought Mr. Edmund
Weld's wife home
with me in the coach; she is in much darkness [concerning the outcome
of his
suit]. Gave Mrs. Dennison a psalm book neatly bound in England with
Turkey
leather. 27th. I ride and visit Mrs. Dennison, leave my horse at the
Grey
Hound. She mentions her discouragements by reason of discourses she
heard; I
prayed God to direct her and me."
In fact, Sewall visits this
lady upon almost every opportunity; but as his duty as circuit judge
took him
away, Mrs. Dennison disappears from the Diary while he is on
his travels. The
neat significant entry is Oct. 15:
"Visit Mrs. Dennison on
horseback; present her with a pair of shoe buckles cost 5s.
3d."
"Nov. 1. My son from
Brookline being here, I took his horse and visited Mrs.
Dennison. I told her
'twas time to finish our business. Asked her what I should
allow her. She not
speaking, I told her I was willing to give her £250 pr. annum
during her life,
if it should please God to take me out of the world before her. She
answered
she had better keep as she was than to give a certainty for an
uncertainty. She
should pay dear for dwelling at Boston. I desired her to make proposals
but she
made none. I had thought of publishment next Thursday. But now I seemed
to be
far from it. May God who has the pity of a father, direct and help me!"
Her late husband, as Sewall
well knew, had left Mrs. Dennison a life interest in all his estates.
The
trouble in this case seems to have been that the lady declined to
alienate any
of her interests by marriage. In fact, all through his later courtships
Sewall
shines more as a sharp business man than a lover with tact or sentiment.
"Novr. 28, 1718. I went
this day in the coach [to Mrs. Dennison's], had a fire made in the
chamber
where I stayed with her before. I enquired how she had done these three
or four
weeks. Afterwards, I told her our conversation had been such
when I was with
her last that it seemed to be a direction in Providence not to
proceed any
further; she said it must be what I pleased, or to that purpose." Then
there apparently proceeded one of those wrangles not peculiar to
Puritan
courtships, but in this case carried on with due Puritan decorum,
which, as
usual with persons in such relations, came to nothing, she holding her
own. But
the ending entry is delicious:
"She asked me if I
would drink; I told her yes. She gave me cider, apples, and a glass of
wine;
gathered together the little things I had given her and offered them to
me; but
I would take none of them. Told her I wished her well, should be glad
to hear
of her welfare. She seemed to say she would not take in hand a thing of
this
nature. Thanked me for what I had given her and desired my prayers. I
gave
Abijah Weld an Angel. Got home about 9 at night. My bowels yearn
towards Mrs.
Dennison; but I think God directs me in his Providence to desist."
We catch one more glimpse of
the lady, Lord's Day, Nov. 30, when, in the evening, while Sewall was
at family
prayers: —
"She came in, preceded
by her cousin Weld, saying she wished to speak to me in private. I was
very
much startled that she should come so far afoot in that exceeding cold
season.
She asked pardon if she had affronted me. Seemed inclined the match
should not
break off, since I had kept her company so long. I fetched a tankard of
cider
and drank to her. She desired that nobody might know of her being here.
I told
her they should not. She went away in the bitter cold, no moon being
up, to my
great pain. I saluted her at parting."
The last glimpse of Mrs.
Dennison in the Diary is this:
"Dec. 22. Mrs. Dorothy
Dennison brings an additional inventory. I gave her her oath; asked her
brother
Brewer and her to dine with me; she said she needed not to eat; caused
her to
sit by the fire and went with her to the door at her going away. She
said
nothing to me nor her brother Brewer."
Mrs. Dennison remarried in
1720, Sewall having already taken to wife Mrs. Tilly whom he had
formerly
considered, and then set aside because they could not agree upon the
terms of
settlement. This lady died when they had been married but a short time
and then
the twice-widowed judge began — after an interval of
only four months, this
time — to pay attentions to Mrs. Winthrop, a highly eligible
widow. The ardent
fashion in which this lady was pursued by the venerable justice I have
elsewhere1
described. But the courtship came to nothing, because
Sewall would not agree to set up a coach nor wear a periwig. He soon
found
another woman less exacting, however, and her he blithely took to be
his third
wife, thought he was now over seventy. She survived him, for he died
Jan. 1,
1730. He sleeps in death in the Old Granary Burying Ground almost on
the very
spot where he long ago had his home.
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1"Romance of Old New England Churches."
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